Family History Friday (FHF): On Bridges!

My Dad wrote this about Bridges. 
I thought you might enjoy it.  
“On Bridges
Bridges have often held a fascination for me and I believe it is because of the part they have played in
my youth. The bridges that crossed small rivers in my hometown were steel structures built above the
road. The load, placed on the bridge by the vehicles crossing it, was on the steel structure above the road as opposed to sunken supports under the bridge holding it up. There were two steel support structures one on either side of the bridge. They were built such that we could run up one end of the bridge’s steel support, walk
across the top and then run down the other side. We were climbing and/or walking on flat steel
beams approximately 10 inches wide that had rivets about two inches apart on each side of the beam. At the top of the structure, we were about 10-12 feet above the road and, of course, the signswould warn people to, ‘Stay off the Bridge’. They were a constant challenge but a usual way
of bridge travel for us, as youth. When I made my first trip to San Francisco, as a serviceman, and saw the beautiful Golden Gate Bridge, I was awe struck. Fortunately, I was stationed at the Presidio as an MP and had a daily view of the bridge for almost two years. It was some time later, as I matured mentally, that I really contemplated the significance of bridges. It may have been after watching the show, “For Whom the Bell Tolls” that I realized how important bridges were to the movement of military troops and supplies. In converse, the importance of the destruction of bridges in order to prevent the movement of those units. In primitive times rivers and huge ravines were natural barriers to protect one tribal community from another. As commerce and a higher order of society were established the rivers and ravines were unwelcome barriers and bridges were built to span them to allow interaction which would be beneficial to their communities. Pioneer stories tell about the difficulty that they had in crossing rivers; sometimes having to travel several miles along the river to find a place shallow enough to cross without losing life or property. They also tell of the need to spend several precious days descending a steep ravine with their wagons and then ascending the other side. Had there been a bridge, they would have lost very little time. Bridges play such a very important roll in our
society. We probably seldom think about the planning and expense that went into the construction of a bridge. In many cases workers lives were a part of the sacrifice to complete a bridge. I love the poem, 
‘The Bridge Builder’
by Garrett Boon –
An old man, going a lone highway,
Came, at the evening, cold and gray,
To a chasm, vast, and deep, and wide,
Through which was flowing a sullen tide.
The old man crossed in the twilight dim;
The sullen stream had no fears for him;
But he turned, when safe on the other side,
And built a bridge to span the tide.
“Old man,” said a fellow pilgrim, near,
“You are wasting strength with building here;
Your journey will end with the ending day;
You never again must pass this way;
You have crossed the chasm, deep and wide-
Why build you a bridge at the eventide?”
The builder lifted his old gray head:
“Good friend, in the path I have come,” he said,
“There followeth after me today,
A youth, whose feet must pass this way.
This chasm, that has been naught to me,
To that fair-haired youth may a pitfall be.
He, too, must cross in the twilight dim;
Good friend, I am building the bridge for him.”
The poem is not only about a physical structure but of building a better way of life for those descending from us. The old man was a pioneer and as he settled he built bridges, roads, railroads, schools and communities for you and me who came ‘his way’ maybe generations later. Have you ever thought about other kinds of
bridges. There are people who are ‘bridges’ that bring other people together. There are ‘people bridges’ in families; those who make peace and nurture greater love by their tender ways. They tend to make smooth the ravines and rivers of differences that sometimes tend to separate brothers and sisters. Then there are bridge builders between generations, those who make it possible to bridge the gap between we and our ancestors. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is such a bridge builder and thank goodness for the great
work being done to bridge those gaps. The gaps of centuries and world wide distances, oceans, language barriers and sometimes plain indifference to the ‘eternal family’ cause. These are data or information bridges that make it possible for us to bridge the gap between this world and the next; between the living and the deceased. We must thank Heavenly Father every day for all the bridge builders. They who build the bridges that span the rivers, ravines, oceans, data and the human gulfs that exist in this wonderful but complex world we live in. Christ, himself, was the ultimate bridge between us and our return to the place that we came from.”
-Emil
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Family Photos!

Do you have bins of photos? 
I do! 
I have a plan for what I’m going to do with them. I’m going invite my family to have a little “Family Photo Organizing Party”.  We will all sit together and go through the photos. 
This is what else we’ll do:
*Label the photos with the date, (to the best 
of our knowledge), on the back. Be sure to use a pen that is archival quality. It will be labeled “safe for photos”. (Sharpies have an alcohol base and are not good for photos.)

*Put the names of those in the pictures on the back, using the special pen again. 
*Organize them into groups: families, trips, people, year, etc.
*Then we’ll put them into some books with acid-free plastic sleeves.

One day I’ll have all of them in scrapbooks, but until then, we’ll be able to look at the photos, and be able to enjoy them. We’ll also not have to worry about remembering all the particulars about each photo. If you have a selection of older photos too, you might want to have a “Family Photo Organizing Party” with your extended family. See who remembers the important information and get it written down before it’s too late! 😉
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Preserving Old Family Records

We all have, or have had, a box, or boxes, of family records and history. Hopefully we have taken great care with them. How are these records being taken care of? Are they in the attic? In the garage? If we don’t take care of them properly, the condition of the records will change. 
We need to keep them: 
*In a temperature much like our bodies (like not too hot, or cold) 
*In a place that is not too drafty
*Away from direct or indirect light, especially UV light 
*The basement might not be the best place either. If a flood came, or even if a pipe in our home broke, water would fill the basement. 
*Not on the floor, especially if it is cement. 
*You don’t want animals making a nest with your records, so a plastic container would be better that cardboard. 
*And the most important thing to me, is if they can be easily rescued from the home if a fire or a natural disaster should happen. 
*One other way to care for, or preserve, your special documents is to take a picture of them with a digital camera and save them on your computer.
I keep my records together in one place, they could be easily loaded in the car if needed. But not only that, mine are not the only copies of our family history. We have several copies of our history, so if something did happen to one person’s copy, they would be able to replace it. You can find a more information about caring for you family records here!

Family History Friday (FHF): Put some "flesh on the bones!"

Mine in Cornwall, England
What does putting “flesh on the bones” have to do with our ancestors? Well, let me tell you of an example of just that.  My maternal grandfather had a pretty rough childhood. His family didn’t share much, and weren’t really all that educated. He worked from a young age, and didn’t have the opportunity to have much education himself. In fact, my great great grandparents, who I have talked about before on my Family History Friday, signed their parish record for their marriage with an “X”, because they could not read or write. They were miners, and spent their lives working very hard. Other family lines have many hand written histories telling of the ancestors experiences in their own words, but not this family. When my mom was researching this family, she realized that she was not going to get much information except names, places and dates, the “bones”. She really wanted to know more about them, the “flesh”. But how? She checked the location. Where were they living? What was life like in the community? She checked the date in history. What was happening in the history of the world, area, or town? What were the customs? She read histories of others who lived in the town or area. Could their life be similar? 
You bet! 
I live in a community, 
and my neighbors have 
a very similar routine as I do. 
What about those you work with? 
Do they have a similar work day?
 If you work in a mine, you’re doing about the same thing as someone else working in a mine. So if you found a book or a history that described life as a miner, would this give you an idea of what your ancestors work and life might be like? If you found a history of the town or parish where your ancestors lived, that talked about the customs and traditions of the area, would this give you an idea of what life was like living in that place? What about pictures? Wouldn’t it be neat to see a detailed picture of the ship your ancestors crossed the ocean on? Or better yet, actually print an internet picture from space of the town they lived in. The town that these ancestors lived in is still a tiny place. That is the kind of research my mom did to build a history of my ancestors on my maternal grandfather’s family. The book of histories and information about life in the area, and at the time my ancestors lived is a treasure to our family. I believe, because she put “flesh on the bones” of this family. They mean more to me than they would if she hadn’t found this information. 
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Slow and Steady!


Life is busy!
 I’ve been feeling that, more than ever lately!  My son, Alex gave me the best advice years ago! I needed a reminder and thought you might too! For this week’s Family History Friday please read about what my son told me here!
Remember this story when life is overwhelming. I do! Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Journals!

Every person should keep a journal 

and every person can keep a journal. 
It should be an enlightening one and should bring great blessings and happiness to the families. If there is anyone who isn’t doing so, will you repent today and change –change your life?  Spencer W. Kimball Ensign -May 1979.

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I found a funny journal entry from one of my journals I thought I’d share with you. The date is July 16, 1977.
I was 15 years old.
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“I will probably never go cherry picking again. We picked from 6:00 am to 2:00 pm and I only made $3.40. My friend Trudy made $5.20, because she had a whole crate more than me. I was so beat when I got home, I was almost asleep on my feet. Me and Trudy were gonna ride the bus from where we were picking cherries  home, and we ended up in another city. I had to call my mom to come and get us and bring us home. After Trudy left, I slept till 10:00 pm, then I woke up took a shower and wrote this in my journal. At least I know what it’s like to pick cherries, and I’ll probably never do it again!”

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I haven’t always written in my journal. And I don’t always do it now, but I am always glad that I did write the things I have written. Years later, it means so much to me. I have to believe it will mean something to someone else. Imagine my grand kids reading, about me cherry picking and laughing, about the way I describe it or how little money I made. If you haven’t written in a journal yet, try it. I is an experience you won’t regret, and neither will you posterity.
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 Theodore M. Burton counseled: “As a people we ought to write of our own lives and our own experiences to form a sacred record for our descendants. We must provide for them the same uplifting, faith-promoting strength that the ancient scriptures now give us” (Ensign, Jan. 1977).
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Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy 

Family History Friday (FHF): Merit Badge!


Did you know there is a 
Genealogy Merit Badge? 
The Boy Scouts of America is a great organization. Along with all of the other fun and interesting Merit Badges young men can earn, there is one that is near and dear to my heart. The Genealogy Merit Badge is one your son or grandson can earn. You can learn about it here!
Both of my sons earned their Eagle Scout. And both earned the Genealogy Merit Badge. It was a fun experience for them to learn about their ancestors and to put themselves for the first time as the #1 person on a pedigree chart. There are Family History Libraries and Centers who have devoted volunteers who would love to help a boy accomplish earning this Merit Badge. To give you an example the Riverton FamilySearch Library is holding a class in November. You can read more about it here!
When you get to their site, scroll down until you find the class listed. What a fun way for a young man to work on his Scouting and get to know his roots at the same time. Check it out! Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Traditions!



Traditions are a fun thing! In a family, things are always changing. School starts after what seems like a short summer vacation, kids move up to a new grade in school with a new teacher, family members grow up enough to move away, leaving the younger siblings at home. What is it that keeps us all connected? Well, one thing is our family traditions. Take a moment to think about your favorite family traditions. Some of them have been celebrated since you were a child in your family growing up. Maybe you have forgotten or would like to know some of the traditions celebrated in your family history. What did you grandparents or great grandparents do for fun? When my maternal grandma, Norma, was a little girl a extra special treat would be to share an apple around the kitchen table. In our home, an apple is not a treat. It is one of the servings of fruits and vegetables we must sometimes force ourselves to eat each day. But knowing and remembering that it was a treat for my grandma helped me to be more grateful for apples. They really are a sweet treat! Another tradition my family has had for generations is to go on a picnic up one of the many canyons near where we live. I haven’t done this for a while, so I’m going to make a plan to do it soon while the leaves are beautiful. We would take the dog, pack up the car and stay for hours. Us kids would play in the stream or river close by, and mom and dad would take a rest in the camping chairs, sometimes dozing off. We would collect rocks and leaves. What fun! With the holiday season coming up, think of some of your family traditions from the past that may become forgotten and bring them alive! Another thing you could do is research traditions that were common in the land and places your ancestors came from and make them a part of you our family traditions. As I’ve shared with you in the post you will find here, my  maternal grandpa’s family were Welsh. A tradition in Wales was for a man to give a love spoon to the girl here wanted to marry. Because I know that was a tradition in Wales it means more to me. I think my ancestors would  have liked that tradition too. 
One funny family tradition that started years ago was this. First for many years and mostly while my children were small, we would watch “It’s a Wonderful Life” on Christmas eve. Then one year we couldn’t find the movie. We looked and looked. So one of the kids said, “Lets watch ‘What About Bob?'” We love that show at our house, but it’s not a very “warm fuzzy” Christmas type of show. My darlin’ and I said, “OK!” So now “What About Bob?” is our traditional Christmas eve movie. It’s fun to have traditions! They make family time the best time! Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF): Immigration!

Did you have ancestors come to 
America
 in late 1800’s to early 1900’s? If so, they may have passed through Ellis Island. This experience was usually quite difficult. Before they even arrived at Ellis Island, they traveled across the ocean on a ship usually in the steerage class. It was over crowded and unsanitary. Many were quarantined on the island for some time until they were allowed to enter New York. If you ever get the chance go see for yourself don’t miss it. The building is a museum full of histories and information. But if you can’t make a trip there, you can take a tour at their sight here!!
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy

Family History Friday (FHF):To Do List!


One place that you can find forms that will help with your research is at FamilySearch.org. They have forms and many other research helps. Have you ever felt like you going in circles. Someone once said, “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” One form that I use and have found helpful is a “To do list”. This form could be used for each family member in organizing your search for them, in an orderly way. You can find the form here! Don’t just go round and round, make a plan!
Happy Family History Friday! Love, Joy