Everything else is great. Again sorry this is so short, but I gotta do what I gotta do. đ
Kelsey
Everything else is great. Again sorry this is so short, but I gotta do what I gotta do. đ
4. The best way to help recent converts stay active is to get them friends. They need some one that will invite them to church and activities and sit with them in sacrament and so forth. That is something that is very important, because even if they have a testimony of it, if they don’t have support from the ward, they won’t want to be there.
4. Forgiviness is somethign that is really hard for a lot of people. Forgiveness is something that is a choice you make for yourself. The person you are hurting the most when you can’t forgive someone is yourself, and most of the time, the other person doesn’t even know they have hurt you. Something I have learned on the mission, is that when you cannot forgive someone for something they have done, you are making it so the Lord cannot forgive you when you do something wrong. There is a scripture about that, but I can’t remember where it is. Also, another question is: Are you going to let other people’s actions keep you from salvation? Because that is what you do when you are unforgiving.
Dearest familia!
Mimi Momo (that is what Sister W. calls her mom) This week has been pretty great. Sister W. and I have been struggling a little bit in this area, because we have very few investigators. But we are working on it, and this week we found some really cool people that we are going to be working with. We are way excited too, because this bishop in this ward totally gets missionary work, and he is willing to do anything to help us. Missionary work is his #1 priority. That should be good. Also, the ward is very helpful in fellowshipping, and welcoming new people into the ward, which is really good. So we are excited to see the great things that are going to be happening here. đ
Sister W. is awesome. She goes home in May (I think I may have told you that), but she makes me laugh so much. We have kind of struggled the last couple weeks. But I feel like if we didn’t laugh all the time, like we do, we would just cry. But she definitely makes life easier and more enjoyable. đ
So here’s a couple things that happened this week.
Thursday: We had appt. with an investigator named L. She is really young (like 19 or 20ish), and she is way cool. So we called her before our appt. to see if she was going to be home, and she told us no. We were all sad, because we really wanted to see her, but we asked if we could reschedule for another day. She told us yeah, and that the reason she couldn’t meet with us because she was getting married! She was getting ready to live the law of chastity without us even telling her to! :):):) So she got married on Friday, and then yesterday, we were in the apartment complex she lives in with her new husband, and we were stopping by to see another investigator we have there. And all the a sudden she comes walking up with her baby and her husband. We started talking to her, and did like a contact thing where we talk a little about the “message” we share with everyone. She asked us what the message was, and we told her we wouldn’t be able to teach it all in one sitting, so we would continue to come see her. Then she’s like “Well I have time right now”. So we went in and taught her the Plan of Salvation. She is way legit! She asked really good questions, and she is very open to what we teach. She even talked about how it sounded familiar. We are way excited for her. I feel like things are definitely going to happen with her (and her husband).
Friday: We had interviews with President S. He started talking to me about my time I have had here on the mission. He said, “Sister, you’ve had about a year out in the mission right?” And when he said it I had a little heart flutter of panic and I was like, “No, President, not quite.” But it is getting close. I’m getting a little nervous. I’m not sure I want to come home. Like I kind of do, but it’s scary. Anyway, we also ate at this restaurant in H. It is seriously one of the most sketch, ghetto places I have ever been to. They have a giant clown outside of the building, and inside there are like a million little clowns parachuting from the ceiling. It was so weird, but the food was really delicious. (I also attached a picture of Sister W. and I standing by the clown. đ
1-How are your investigators? 1. We don’t have very many, as I have said before, but we have a few that are getting really close to baptism. There are two ladies in particular, that are cousins, and they have made a lot of big changes in their lives, and made huge steps to bring them closer to baptism. They are awesome
3-Do you feel that you have a particular spiritual gift that helps with missionary work? If so, what is it? 3. I used to joke with Sister A. about something I called “spirit guided driving”. I knew my way around my last area pretty well, but sometimes we would be going somewhere, and I wasn’t quite sure how to get there. So I would drive the way I thought we needed to go, and then when I felt like I should turn, I would turn. And we always got there. It was pretty funny. I think that the Lord just watches out for us more as his missionaries than otherwise. Also, the gift of tongues is definitely real. I have seen the help of the Lord in my situation trying to learn spanish. There is no way that anyone can learn the language as fast as we do as missionaries. It requires a lot of faith, and a lot of trust in the Lord (that he will put the words in your mouth, and cover for your shortcomings).
4-Favorite scripture of the week? 4. Doctrine and Covenants 100:4 It talks about how we were sent to this place because it was expedient for the salvation of souls. I really like it because it was hard for me to come here to H., because I didn’t want to leave my last area, but I am here to do the Lord’s work, just like I was doing in A. And I know I will grow to love this place just like I grew to love A. đ
Special Question: 5-How can we deal with negativity, and not let it bog us down? 5. Negativity is something I still really struggle to handle. It’s hard as a missionary to have people constantly letting you down, and still be positive and happy. But I always just remember that negativity, along with discouragement, are some of the biggest tools Satan uses against us. So in order for us to not get dragged down by him, we have to focus on the good things that are happening, and not let the things that are hard, have dominance of our lives.
Dad:
That is cool you are having good experiences with your job. You guys aren’t having any snow either? Wow, crazy. The last few days here have been in the high 60’s and 70’s. It’s so weird. It sure does not feel like winter here. But things are good. I hope your week is great. Recuerda quien eres! (Remember who you are! đ
Emerny:
I am really going to write you a letter today. I ran out of stamps last week, but I bought some today, so I will write you a real letter. So this is all. And also…”Stay on your side!!!”
Anyway, that is all for now. I love you all! Be good!! đ
Love, Kelsey XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Love you Mommy!
Dad:
That’s way cool you got snow. I kind of want snow, but at the same time I don’t because we have to go out and work in it. We aren’t allowed to drive the cars if it is snowy out, so we would have to be walking in it. đ
Emmysaurus:
I love you all a lot!! I will be seeing you soon. (approx. 247 days! I am not really counting :))
Love, Kelsey XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Dear family……..
Feliz Ano Nuevo!!!!!
Today is a very sad day in the life of Hermana KelseyâŚ.because she is now getting transferred from A. đ đ đ
We got our transfer calls this morning, and I am going to H., which is a really great area from what I’ve heard. But I love A. I don’t want to leave. đ I heard that I was leaving this morning, and I just cried. I love this place, and the people here. But it will be okay I guess. The Lord knows best. My new companion will be Sister W. She was serving in A. right before I came here, and we basically just switched areas when I got transferred up here, because she went down to my last area. She’s pretty cool. I think it will be good.
1-How many members are there in your ward/branch?
1. We probably have a couple hundred, but we also have a lot of less active/inactive families.
2-What is the church building like?
2. The church building is like all the other church buildings that I have been in.
3-Is your companions family LDS?
3. Yes, Sister A.’s family is. She has an older brother that is less active, but he is getting involved with the church again.
4-What do you usually do on P-day?
4. On p-day we usually clean our room, wash the car, go the Walmart and do our shopping, go to the church to email, play some sports, and write some letters (if we have time). Sometimes we do other things, but that is usually about it.
5-Do you have to deal with roaches or other small bugs?
5. I haven’t had to deal with cockroaches since I was in my last area. We live in a really nice house, so we don’t ever see them at our house, and we only sometimes see them at investigators’ or members’ houses.
6-How are your clothes holding up?
6. My clothes are doing okay. I’ve had to hand sew a couple things, but for the most part they are good. I’m just getting really sick of all the clothes I have. đ I was used to having a lot of clothes to wear before the mission, and now I only have a few, so it’s weird.
7-What is the area you are serving in like? Flat, rolling hills?
7. It’s kind of city, like home, but with more businesses, and also there are areas where it is like suburbia and neighborhoods. It’s really flat, like most of Texas.
8-What is the best thing about 2012?
8. The best things about 2012 is that I get to spend a good part of it serving the Lord. đ Not that I am counting or anything, but as of today I have 254 awesome days left on the mission. đ Then I get to see you!!! đ
So anyway, this week was really fast. We have been so busy this transfer. We have had so many people to visit, it is like unbelievable. On Monday, we played soccer which was really fun. I get a little crazy in soccer sometimes, so it’s a good thing we don’t play it too often.
Tuesday: Elder R. gave a really cool training about his top 10 lessons he has learned from his mission. It was really cool. It’s so weird because I have now served with him for 4 1/2 months, and he is going home now. It’s always weird when people go back to the real world.
Wednesday: We had a really cool lesson with C. (the 15 year old that we have had a lot of problems with her family). She really is making steps again, which is awesome. I really am going to miss that girl. đ We also have been dealing with a lot of drama with this recent convert family, because the dad is acting crazy and drinking and stuff. So we went to visit her, and gave her some hugs and stuff.
Friday: We had a breakthrough with one of our investigators, J., so we are thinking some really great things that are going to be happening. Also, I had a dream about Natasha. I was sad because she was getting big and she didn’t want me to give her kisses anymore. đ
But that was basically my week.
Hey Dad:
Sorry you didn’t have snow. We didn’t either. And it has been like 50’s and 60’s for the last week or so. So it doesn’t even feel like winter, or the holidays. We stayed up until midnight on New Years Eve (don’t worry, the white handbook only says we have to be in bed by 10:30, not asleep), and then Sister A. starting naming off all the things that were the first things of the new year. “This is the first clap of the new year…this is the first hugging of Pikachu of the new year….this is the first dance of the new year…” It was so funny. I laughed really hard. That’s cool though that you just got to chill for new years.
Emmysaurus:
You should definitely work on those grades little Chickadee! What school are you thinking about going to? You should go to a good school, but remember you can only get in if you are going to be an asset for their school. So if you can get in for sports, or grades or something. But that is really cool. Just remember, also, to keep the Lord involved in your decisions, because he won’t lead you astray. He’ll show you where you need to go, and what you need to do. Who was the kid in your grade that died? And how did he die? That is really sad. It’s always hard when someone dies young. I think that is basically all. Love ya.
I love all of you a lot!! Be good.
Love, Kelsey XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
We were able to talk to Hermana Kelsey yesterday for Christmas. It was so fun to hear her voice. She learned Spanish since she left on her mission. I finally got to hear her speak in Spanish for the first time. She was amazing. If case you donât know how this works, when you are a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints you leave your home and family for two years (for men), or 18 months (for women). You work super hard everyday trying to help your brothers and sisters in the world learn about our Savior, Jesus Christ. We only email or send letters the entire time, except Motherâs Day and Christmas, then we get to talk to each other on the phone or Skype. So I havenât talked to Hermana Kelsey since last Motherâs Day. Knowing that we will get to talk is the most exciting thing. She is having a great experience being a servant of our Lord.Â
Hey family!
Long time no talk, eh? Our 40 minutes yesterday went by WAY TOO fast!! How long did Alex get to talk to y’all?
Elder R. (one of our elders in our district) is going home on the 3rd of January, and he is so sad. He said before now he wanted to go home, but now that he has to, he doesn’t want to. I wonder if Alex will be that way. I know that I will. I’ll be really excited to come home, but at the same time it will be sad, because you know you won’t be able to have the same experiences you have a missionary anymore. đ
Ha ha ha. My spanish is not that great. Especially for how long I have been out. That has been one of the things I have struggled with the most on the mission. But I am also really bad about having language study, which is something I can definitely work on. But hopefully I will be completely fluent by the time I come back home. I’ll just have Janet teach me some slang, and then I’ll be great. đ
I really miss playing board games sometimes. Yesterday, the C.’s (the family we live with), were playing Scattergories with some of their friends and I really really wanted to play. But I didn’t. I’ll just enjoy them when I get home. đ
Yeah, I already figured out when I will be coming home. The transfer ends on September _.
So a lot of stuff happened this week…but I forgot my planner at home so I don’t really remember a lot of things.
Tuesday, we had a present exchange with the elders in our district. I had Elder R. (the one who is going home), and I got him a gift card thing for Farmville, because I wanted to get him something for when he goes home (like very trunky), and also because he loves Farmville. He has been talking about it like all the time. So he opened it, and just started laughing. Then his companion Elder J. tells us that all that morning he was talking about how he couldn’t “wait to get back to his cows”. It was really really funny. I wish I could send you the video of it, but it is too big to send in my email. But it was funny.
We didn’t have a white Christmas (no snow, and no baptisms :(), but we will be having hopefully two this coming Friday. We still need to talk to them about everything, but I think they will do it. They are ready. đ
We spent Christmas Eve caroling to a lot of our investigators, and recent converts, and less active members. We spent all day driving around and visiting people and singing Christmas carols for them. It was really great. In the evening, we ate with our ward mission leader and his wife. They fed us really well. đ
Dad: Hey, sorry I didn’t get to talk to you very much yesterday. đ They didn’t give us very much time to talk to everyone. But I’m glad you enjoyed your Christmas. I wish I could have heard your talks yesterday. I bet they were great. đ Feliz Navidad!
Emmysaurus Rex: It’s okay that you were crying a lot. Ha ha. You made me cry too. But that’s okay too. I am glad you are still doing good, even if you are wearing my clothes. đ đ Jk, jk. But that’s cool. Anyway, you should write me a real letter. đ đ Te amo!
That’s basically it for right now. I’ll try to have more to talk about next time. Hopefully, y’all had a great Christmas! I love you all! Les quiero muchisimo!!!
Love, Kelsey XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Dear family…
Sorry my email was short last week, Mommy. It will also be short this week. We email at the church, and there are only 3 computers, and the elders always take forever, so we never have any time. But I will be talking to you on Sunday!!! đ đ đ đ đ So I hope that makes up for it.
Anyway, I’m glad that you had fun with your parties. Mom, I am going to remember that you said that, and remind you next year when it comes times again. đ Thank you for doing that at the party (asking people to write letters), because that is basically the only thing I want for Christmas. I miss knowing what people are doing in their lives. I wish Caitlin would have written to me. She used to write me letters when I was little. đ Oh well. That was a funny story about Baylor and Brady. Brady still really makes me laugh a lot. He is a really funny guy.
So this week a lot of stuff happened, but since I don’t have very much time, I’ll just tell you about a really cool experience we had yesterday. So Sister A. and I decided to fast with two of our investigators who have baptismal dates, so that G. would have the courage to make a really big decision so that she can get baptized. So we were fasting all day, and we went to church. We had tried really really hard that morning to try to get all of our investigators to church, and we went in expecting a miracle. So we sat in sacrament meeting with our two eternal investigators and none of the people that we really wanted/needed to come to church came. So we were all sad and disappointed. Then we had to leave a little after the sacrament to take care of our recent convert, L., who was having a break down, because she was nervous to speak in church. So we were taking care of her, and then we go back into the chapel…and guess who was there!? All of the investigators we wanted at church! It was amazing! The Lord definitely blesses us when we put our trust and faith in him. So in total, we had 8 investigators at church. It was a good Sunday.
Well, I’m out of time, but Emily I wrote you a letter that will be coming soon, and also for the rest of you I sent a Christmas card. I love you all, and miss you, and will be talking to you on Sunday!!!
Love, Kelsey
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
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