As a small child a fun thing that would happen about once a month or so, down by the church we attended would be parked a big motorhome/bus looking vehicle. It was called the Bookmobile. To see it parked there would be such a happy thrill. I loved the Bookmobile. I had various books for different ages and by different authors. It had a special smell and all the books looked wonderful lined up waiting to be read.

I loved the picture books before I was very proficient at reading. One of my favorites is a book called The Little House by Virginia Lee Burton. It’s a story about a precious little cottage that is built on a hill out in the country. There is a brook nearby and fruit trees with swing hanging from them. Smoke is coming from the chimney in the cold months and in the warm months the mother in the home hangs clothes to dry in the yard. There is even a little pond for swimming just down the hill from the house. At first the family comes and goes in a horse drawn carriage, but soon there are cars, and tractors and machinery that makes it way to the little house. The little house is curious about the city, but is concerned as other houses rise up around, and soon the little house is surrounded by a large city. The buildings are very tall on either side of the little house and the sun is blocked, so no one wants to live in the little house. The city kept getting bigger and bigger. Trollies and cars and busy people constantly moving and the little house missed the country. Then one day the great great granddaughter of the man who built the little house came and moved the little house back out to the country. The great great granddaughter found just the right spot and the little house was so happy and never wondered about the city again.

I love that story! The cute little house and yard and country location are just what I’d always wanted to live in.

The next favorite book that I love is The Secret Garden by Francis Hodgson Burnett. An orphan goes to live with her uncle. He is very sad and lonely. She is very sad too. She finds a secret garden near the uncles home and asks him if she can use a bit of land to plant things. She meets a new friend, Dickon, who is the younger brother to the chambermaid Martha. She finds out shortly after she gets to her uncles house that she has a cousin, Colin. He is very sickly and his existence is all about crying and being taken care of. Well, Mary the orphan and cousin is not putting up with him. She helps him to realize he’s not sick and encourages him to do more. He starts to do better, and Mary, Colin and Dickon spend hours in the garden. This is another example of something I always wanted to do. Work the land and make my patch of earth very beautiful with flowers, vegetables, shrubs and trees. I love to be in nature.

The next favorite story that I love is one that I read as an adult. It is a classic. It’s called: Great Expectations by Charles Dickens. My Mama read to us kids from this book when I was young. I remember being kind of concerned about the lady Miss Havisham, who still wears her wedding dress and that the wedding cake and flowers are covered in cobwebs. It was always there in the back of my mind growing up and then I finally decided it was time to read it. It’s not an easy book, even though the reading level for this book is considered to be grade 9, and the genre is young adult. The book is over 100 years old and many of the words are not in use anymore. This does make it a challenging book to read. I must say even though it was tough for me, I thoroughly enjoyed the book, the story and the characters. The main hero of the book is Pip. His full name is Philip Pirrip, but goes by Pip. He is a very poor orphan who is being raised by his oldest sister. She is unkind to him, but her husband Joe is a good man and treats Pip kindly. Pip runs into an escaped convict, Magwitch who asks Pip to bring a file so he can cut his chains off. Pip brings the file to him and also food.

This kindness touches the convict who later becomes a very important part of the story.

Pip is asked by Miss Havisham to visit and he spends time with her adopted daughter Estella. The two children play games and Pip developes an affection for Estella while she acts aloof and disinterested.

Much later Pip is given an opportunity to go to London and become a “Gentleman”. Pip doesn’t know who his benefactor is, but he suspects it is Miss Havisham. There are many twists and turns and Pip finally finds out who is supporting him. He learns some very hard lessons about what is most important. He learns that sometimes the ones we judge or look down on turn out to be the best people after all.

I’ve always considered expectations to be one of the most difficult things in life. It’s something we all do. We have some plan for our future, we have expectations, but very seldom does life turn out exactly like we think or expect. As a young woman my hope was to marry and become a Mama. That was my dream. My expectation was that I would be able to be a homemaker and care for my children without working a job outside the home. Reality, my dream came true, I am married and a Mama. I’m so thankful for that blessing. My expectation did not happen the way I hoped. It has been necessary for me to work in some way or another to help provide for our little family. Was I disappointed? Yes, but I also found creative ways to work, like doing daycare so I was home and bringing in income.

So is it better to not have expectations? If we don’t make plans or expect certain things to go a certain way, will we move forward toward our goals or what we want? Or what if there is an event that you’re planning, you need to plan. How many people do you expect? And the planning continues; I want people to come, what if they don’t? I want it to be fun, what if someone gets upset? (Like last time). I better be prepared or expect there could be problems. Another example: When I’m a grandma, it will be like this or that. Then when you become a grandma you realize you’re not in charge. How you expected it to be is not how it is. I’m still learning this at 61 years old. It seems to be better to just enjoy life. Do your best in whatever life gives you. Be careful with expectations, for Pip and me they don’t always turn out how you thought they would, but they turn out wonderful. It is best to enjoy life, and be thankful in all things. Great Expectations are a lesson in life.